Almost 30, and girls still confuse me…
November 22, 2006 at 5:43 am (Lonliness, Relationships, Socializing, Uncertainty, love)
I am in the weird predicament where I have the opportunity to talk to three very attractive women right now, but due to the fact that I won’t do anything until I have absolute positive verification as to whether they fancy me as much as I fancy them, I will continue to sit on my arse and do nothing now, and most likely whine about it later.
Girl #1 is actually my main interest. We actually used to date…kind of.
I made the mistake of falling for her and it was quite obvious without me ever having to let those three dreaded words part my lips. She still corresponds with me due to the fact that I will always be Mr. Nice Guy with her, and my unconditional love of her allows me to remain her possible “contingency plan” if her plans don’t work out if she fails to meet certain life goals.
She’s my plan A, and I’m her Plan B…
Girl #2 is a new girl. A girl I met from the dreaded return to MySpace. She’s a nice girls who enjoys my rambling and finds my ridiculous drivel endearing. We have yet to meet face to face, but essentially talk almost every night for hours on end via Instant messenger. She’s got great brains, and I admire that about her, but I am 5 years her senior…
She has stated that she finds me attractive and I her, but she has also expressed her feelings about my work schedule making me “not readily available” when it comes to dating. I may have been placed into the “Friend Zone” as for now, with evidence being as how she has already openly talked to me about a guy that she slept with shortly after we started corresponding.
Girl #3 didn’t really develop until this evening. She actually works at my gym, and the vibe I get from her may all just be in my head, but she has stated on several occasions that she really likes my hair, or my shoes, or something else about me, when I walk past her. And she always smiles at me and makes it a point to tell me to have a nice evening when I leave, even if she is talking to someone else.
As it stands now, I don’t think I really have a chance with Girl #1 right now, per se, but I tell myself everyday that she is worth the wait. I only pray that I am right.
Girl #2 is someone I wouldn’t mind having something develop with, as she is really smart and quite interesting.
Girl #3, I believe, is just a fun flirty thing, but I get the feeling like I really should flirt back, if for no other reason than to just brush up on my flirtation skills. Who knows where it could lead?
leroykirk said,
November 22, 2006 at 9:24 am
Girls are confusing aren’t they? I do okay with them but am still maddened sometimes about their otherwise whacko behaviour. Like she’ll seem all keen and then you’ll phone her and she’s come up with an excuse or other. I met this one girl in a book store, and went for a coffee with her, and she was really chatty, and friendly, and I asked her to write down her number for me, and she wouldn’t. WTF? you’ll happily sit here and talk to me but you don’t want me to txt you?
My wife will test me all the time. I’ll tell her what we’re doing, and she’ll come up with some wanky emotional reason for not doing it. This is a test. She does it because she wants to feel that I’m strong, and that I’ll resist her reasoning if it doesn’t make sense. I pass her test by doing what I know is right, and not being brainwashed. And then she loves and trusts me more. This pattern of behaviour is madenning! but if you are strong willed and a strong man then it shouldn’t affect you much.